How are You Doing in Your Life?

How are you doing in your Life ?

It was a simple Question. Nothing to it really, but it opened my thoughts to an extent that I was not prepared for. I immediately started remembering things that I never wanted to remember.(Maybe actually the ones I should never forget) I thought of times past when I felt like I was a total failure.
1. The Day I split up with my first wife.
2. The Day my Dad Died.
3. The Day I realized my second wife would never help herself if I was around.
4. The Day I realized I lost the heart of the only Woman I've ever Truly Loved.
This list could go on for a while, I guess everyone has a list of things like this but there's also a list of the Times In Life that Made me Feel Like I could do no Wrong.
1. The Day's all my Wives said YES, to the "Will You Marry Me" Question.
2. The day I adopted my Oldest Son.
3. The day my Second Son was Born.
4. The day I acted on the feelings that it was time to move back home, and Did.
I was asked this Question a week ago and it's my waking thought in the morning and it's the last thing I think of before I go to sleep. My life has not been an easy task. Nobody's Life is easy! Some are just luckier than others. I've started over 4 times, each time starting with nothing except friends. A few have been great friends and because of these friends, I've found it bearable when things have really looked down and out.
All and all, through all the tears and laughter, Right now I feel I am doing well in my life. Everyday though, the Question asked still makes me think, "How AM I doing in my life?"